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{{quote|''Today, I am a man!''}}

Given that [[A Man Is Not a Virgin]], a leading man who has no sexual experience will generally be mortally embarrassed about the fact and feel the need to get deflowered as soon as possible to prove himself. The plot generally follows his attempts to meet girls/women and get them into bed. Generally speaking, this is a comedy film, so his attempts are inept or nerdish and [[Hilarity Ensues]].

Conventionally, the hero is successful, thus proving he is a man, and reassuring insecure male virgins in the audience that they, too, will someday become men through sex. [[An Aesop]] about love being more important than sex will then be shoehorned in, and the hero will settle down with one nice girl. This seems to be so that the movie [[Getting Crap Past the Radar|can't be called immoral]], despite being preoccupied with proving oneself through casual sex.

If the movie was made after 2000 then there will invariably be an [[Unrated Edition]] DVD promising even more titillating moments.

This trope could have originated from such [[Truth in Television|warped standards in the real world]], or contributed to those standards; probably, both.

Often a subtrope of the [[Coming of Age Story]]. Contrast with the [[Celibate Hero]] theory, which says, "Real men can resist sex." Compare [[Sex Is Cool]]. Often found in the [[Sex Comedy]]. A subtrope of this trope is [[Professional Sex Ed]].

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== Anime and Manga ==
* The [[Transformation Sequence]] of ''[[Prétear]]'' uses this trope as symbolism.
* In ''[[Turn A Gundam]]'', the protagonist and other children would celebrate a coming-of-age ceremony as per tradition: among other things, they would go to the top of a mountain, strip naked, and put leeches onto each others' backs to create marks. And do whatever else they want. Too bad an untimely attack ruined the ceremony, or it would've been...very...interesting.
* The universe anime and manga ''[[Loveless]]'' has a unique aspect in that all virgins have cat ears and a tail until they first have sexual intercourse, and this is utilized in various ways to show a character's personal life. It's also subverted and questioned, especially with Soubi {{spoiler|who lost his ears as a result of sexual abuse by his teacher in a traumatic experience}}.
** What makes it more twisted is that {{spoiler|Soubi was raped by Ritsu because Ritsu resented Soubi's mother for marrying someone else}}.
* In the ''[[Kodomo no Omocha]]'' manga, Sana (thirteen at the time) wants to hurry up and "become an adult" because she imagines that  {{spoiler|if they're adults, she and Akito won't have to be separated. They get in bed and partially undress, but Sana proves to be too ticklish and nothing happens because the mood is ruined.}} [[Subverted Trope|Subverted]] (arguably even [[Discredited Trope|discredited]]) because it's clear that  {{spoiler|Sana's becoming extremely irrational / mentally unstable}} at this point, and [[Author Avatar|Sana's mother]] explicitly refutes this trope when they talk about it afterward.
* ''[[Gun X Sword]]'' appears to play this trope straight at one point, with [[Evil Is Sexy|Fasalina]] promising to turn the newest member of the Original Seven into a man through sex. However, this is later subverted, as the narrator explicitly states that Van (a virgin) is a man, while {{spoiler|Michael}}, despite his initiation into adult sexuality, is just a boy.

== Film ==
* ''[[Porky's]]'', promoted as "The Raunchiest Movie About Growing Up Ever Made", features a 17-year-old hero. The sequel advances into [[My Girl Is Not a Slut]] territory.
* ''[[Revenge of the Nerds]]'': No matter how many times the Nerds outsmart the Jocks, they haven't really beaten the Jocks till the chief Nerd seduces the chief Jock's girl. (Yes, I know, there was the big speech about Nerd pride while the [[Scary Black Man]] types intimidated the Jocks, but which part did we all really cheer at?) Of course she's a cheerleader, too; see [[All Guys Want Cheerleaders]].
* ''[[The 40-Year-Old Virgin]]'': Much of the humor in the film is due to the fact that the hero lives up to the title. He collects toys, underlining the pre-manhood status of male virgins. Ironically, despite his 'man-child' status, in many ways his non-virgin male friends were far more infantile and immature about sex than he was.
** It should also be noted that the hero reached his spiritual manhood long before he lost his virginity, since he waited to have sex until the honeymoon.
** Taken to another level in [[The Mockbuster]] [[The Asylum]] film, ''The 18-Year-Old Virgin''. The titular virgin is a female [[Hollywood Nerd]] who wants to lose it to her crush at a party. The guy is open to the idea, but doesn't want to have sex with a virgin, so she has to find ''someone else'' to take her virginity before she can hook up with her dream guy. [[Hilarity Ensues]].
* The entire plot of the film ''[[American Pie]]'', which in turn owes more than a passing debt to the similarly-structured 1980s comedy ''Hot Moves''.
** And even more so in ''American Pie: The Naked Mile'', where ironically this trope was shoehorned as the secondary plot (because watching nude people was [[Exactly What It Says on the Tin|the one true point of that movie]]).
* In the 80s [[Affectionate Parody]] of westerns, ''[[Rustlers' Rhapsody]]'', the hero is confronted with the fact that one of the requirements to being an official, sanctioned hero is that he has to be a "confident heterosexual". He thought it was ''just'' heterosexual.
* Played for drama in 2002's ''[[Roger Dodger]]'', with the interesting approach of treating it as a [[Noir]] object.
* [[Rare Female Example]] in ''[[Four Rooms]]'', where a girl remarks on how she is "now a woman" after having sex with the main character.
** Another female example would be Winona Ryder in ''[[Mermaids]]''. This is somewhat of an inversion, however, in that Ryder's (Jewish) character embraces strict Catholicism, and even hopes to become a nun, precisely to ''avoid'' having to deal with her newly-awakened sexual urges. {{spoiler|She ends up doing it in the end, however.}}
* ''[[Sex Drive]]'' is about a teenaged virgin who goes on a cross-country drive to meet up/have sex with a hot girl he met on the internet.
* [[Deconstruction|Played horribly straight]] in ''[[L.A. Confidential]]'' where three teenagers kidnap a girl and rape her in order to 'become a man'. She is then left tied up in an apartment for days and only rescued because the kids were framed for another crime.
** Much worse in the book: after raping her, they drove around and "sold her out" to all their friends.
* A more serious-minded example: ''Summer of '42''.
* In the movie ''[[Milk Money]]'', three preteen boys go to great lengths (breaking open piggy banks, having yard sales) in order to come up with the $100 (in change) needed to hire a hooker and achieve manhood. Hilarity ensues when they get to the city with the money, only to start asking random women to remove their clothing because they can't "tell a prostitute from everybody else." After successfully hiring one (who only gives them a brief topless show for their money), they pass out cigarettes, announcing that they have had sex and are now men. Men without matches, as it were, so they simply enjoy the unlit cigarettes hanging there.
** One of the boys chooses to cover his eyes when the prostitute removes her top, proclaiming that he "wants to be a gentleman." This is fortuitous, as it removes the squick factor of the prostitute's likely disposition at the end of the movie as  {{spoiler|his future stepmother.}}
* One of the subplots of ''[[The Boat That Rocked]]'' is the attempts the crew to let Tom Sturridge's character lose his virginity.
* Most of the plot of ''The Last American Virgin''.
* ''[[Dirty Dancing]]'': Baby.
* Boner (pronounced "Bonner") in ''[[Shriek If You Know What I Did Last Friday the Thirteenth]]''. He spends the entire movie trying to get some. At one point, he spontaneously declares that the protagonists should [[American Pie|make a pact to lose their virginity before graduating]]. Everyone turns him down simultaneously (but [[The Ditz|Slab O'Beef]] agrees). At lunch (oysters, natch), he laments that roofies aren't getting him laid when he takes them (Slab opines that he's not taking enough). Even when it looks like he's getting some at the climax, it's all [[Innocent Innuendo|sight gags]] to illustrate [[Action Girl|Martina Martinez's]] [[Scream (film)|rules of a parody situation]]. A [[Hospital Hottie]] jumps him for his [[Biggus Dickus]] as he's being loaded into an ambulance. The [[Where Are They Now? Epilogue]] reveals that she's a post-op transsexual; Boner doesn't care.
* This is pretty much the plot of every [[Michael Cera]] film. [[Superbad]], [[Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist]], [[Youth in Revolt]], plus he also loses his virginity in [[Juno]].
* ''The Virginity Hit'' is the story of Matt, whose friends try to get him laid. [[Hilarity Ensues|And make a movie out of it.]] On a side note: the main character is played by Matt Bennett. Yes, [[Victorious|that Matt Bennet]].
* In ''[[One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest]]'', although he has to be persuaded by others into doing it,  {{spoiler|having sex is what gives Billy Bibbit the confidence to stand up to Nurse Ratched, and gets rid of his stutter into the bargain. Candy must be some lover.}}
** Though after this triumph, Nurse Ratched  {{spoiler|[[Don't Tell Mama|threatened to tell his mother]]. Billy promptly [[Deconstruction|started stuttering again]], locked himself into a room, and [[Driven to Suicide|killed himself]]}}.
* In ''Little Darlings'', two teenage girls at a summer camp compete to be the first one to lose their virginity.


== Literature ==
* [[The Dark Tower]]: Roland goes downtown and gets a prostitute immediately after becoming a 14-year old gunslinger. He does it for no other reason than because he could.
** Although subverted in ''Wizard & Glass'' there's a scene immediately after this where Roland's father busts into the room and lets him know he's still got a fair way to go before he's truly grown up.
* For another Stephen King example, in ''[[IT]],'' six [[Squick|eleven-year-old]] boys [[Unusual Euphemism|run the train]] on the one female in the group (consensually!) as a way to reforge the bond between them and find their way out of the sewers. It's used as a metaphor for leaving their childhoods behind.
* In the ''[[Apprentice Adept]]'' series, werewolves can only receive full adult status (conferred by a fourth syllable in their name) by going through a ritual first mating (A female chooses a male to mate with when her first heat comes. There's no chance of pregnancy, but the two are barred from mating with each other again)
* In the sci-fi novel ''[[Greatwinter Trilogy|Eyes of the Calculor]]'' a fifteen-year old youth is going off to fight a duel against a more experienced opponent. He intends to stop off a brothel first because dueling as a virgin is regarded as bad luck, but the 22-year old maid seduces him figuring she'd be a better inspiration to live than some anonymous whore.
* Discussed in ''[[The Bad Seed]]'': during a discussion with friends, [[Motor Mouth]] Monica Breedlove mentions how much she despises sex being treated as a rite of passage in fiction; she feels sex is just another life experience, nothing more, nothing less, and goes into a surprisingly funny rant about how she would rather read a story about a boy casually losing his virginity to a prostitute.
* A major part of Johnny and Owen's growing up in ''[[A Prayer for Owen Meany]]'' by John Irving concerns the efforts of Johnny in particular to find a girl. However, subverted, when the adult Johnny of twenty years later admits he is still a virgin and no longer has an interest in changing that.
* [[Clan of the Cave Bear]] series, in a rare female example in Jondalar's Cro-Magnon culture a girl's first time happens shortly after her first menses and is called First Rites. They can pick whichever eligible and consenting man they want to perform the ceremony. Boys get special training so that they will ensure the girl has a good time. A man's first time isn't really as specially celebrated although men who are frequently asked to perform First Rites are considered quite the stud. This is contrasted with the Neanderthal culture that raised Ayla, where sex is something men demand whenever they want, of any woman, who will immediately assume the...position. A young man who hated Ayla raped her repeatedly this way in order to flaunt his power over her and punish her for being herself, even though there was no sexual stigma.
* In ''[[Xanth]]'', this is referred to as "joining the Adult Conspiracy", as the details thereof are a closely guarded secret.
** Though simply knowing how [[Exactly What It Says on the Tin|"stork summoning"]] is done is enough to become part of the Conspiracy. Jenny Elf and Gwenny Goblin are shown uncensored Tapestry pictures of a couple going at it, in order to initiate them, as they needed the knowledge to complete their Humphery-given task. (Che didn't count; as a centaur he already knew the "raw facts")
*** This trope is played so straight that in one book, the plot kicks off with a goblin having to take her kid brother to a forgetfulness spring, because he's gained tremendous power just by learning to ''swear''. Lord knows what would have happened if he'd found out about stork summoning.
* The [[Miles Vorkosigan]] series has Miles' first time described in his thoughts and fitting the [[Feudal Future]], it matches a traditional one of European aristocrats- on a "Grand Tour". Miles went to [[Pleasure Planet|Beta]] and had his first experience with a woman who had a fetish for those deformed like himself. When he saw her with someone else, he tried to slit his wrists and was only stopped from suicide by [[Battle Butler|Bothari]] (the context of Miles' memory is that he knows Bothari was a psycho, but he also remembers Bothari's kindness to him).
* In ''[[The Iron Dragon's Daughter|The Iron Dragons Daughter]]'', girls have a [[I Call Him "Mister Happy"|"naming ceremony"]], in which a good experience will render their ladybits "pliant and a friend for life". It's suggested that boys have a similar rite.
* This trope is common in the books that [[Miss Marple]]'s nephew Raymond West usually gives her to read, and Miss Marple hates it. Not because of any squeamishness about sex, but because of the rite-of-passage bit; she feel that it removes all the romance and mystery from sex and reduces it to something roughly equivalent to taking a vitamin pill.
{{quote|Sex as a word had not been mentioned much in Miss Marple's day, but there had been plenty of it, not talked about so much, but enjoyed far more, or so it seemed to her. Though usually labeled Sin, she couldn't help thinking that was preferable to what it was now, a kind of Duty....Really, to have sex urged on you as though it were an iron tonic! Poor young things.}}
* In ''[[The Red Tent]]'', girls in Padan-Aram undergo a ritual upon reaching their first period where they are masturbated with a small household idol by their female relatives, in order to a) break their hymen to offer the resultant blood to the goddess Inanna, and b) encourage (via orgasm) the girl undergoing the ritual to [[Dreaming of Things to Come|dream about what her destiny holds]]. (The Canaanite women, who do not do this ritual, view it as [[Squick]].)
** In the same book, [[Love Interest|Prince Shalem]] mentions having been [[Professional Sex Ed|taken to the high priestess to lose his virginity upon reaching puberty]]. She kept the room dark, so he couldn't actually see her, the idea being that he was sleeping with whatever goddess she served or represented. He fondly remembered it as "like a dream within a dream," although he says it does not compare to his honeymoon with [[The Protagonist|Dinah]].
* Apparently, Beowulfans in the ''[[Honor Harrington]]'' series believe this for ''both'' genders, to the point where Allison Harrington wanted to get her daughter a night with a male courtesan for her Academy graduation. Mom did not know until much later that it was [[Attempted Rape|more than]] self-image issues that made Honor a [[Celibate Hero]] for so long. She was ''pissed'' when she found out.
* In [[Isaac Asimov]]'s ''The Gods Themselves'', there's an alternate universe and humans have discovered absurdly cheap power by exploiting the different rules of their universe and ours. In the alternate universe, there are three kinds of gaseous people and a kind of solid people.  {{spoiler|the solid people are the merging - which is their analog of sex - of three gaseous people}}.


== Live Action TV ==
* Subverted in ''[[Babylon 5]]'': the ranger Marcus Cole admits to Ivanova that he is a virgin, and is saving himself for the right woman (i.e. Ivanova). He seems completely at peace with this; Ivanova feels sympathy for him, but he neither needs nor desires her sympathy.
**  {{spoiler|He never does lose it, either, instead dying to save her life.}}
* The ''[[Firefly]]'' episode "Jaynestown" dances back and forth between playing this straight and subverting it. Inara, the show's [[Hooker with a Heart of Gold]], is hired by a rich snob to "make his son a man." The son has much more confidence afterwards, but it's not clear how much was meant to be attributed to the sex and how much to Inara's pep-talks before and after.
** The son's remark "YOU wanted to make a man of me. I guess it worked," implies more that it was the pep talks, since the father's behavior clearly indicates that by "a man" he meant "the same downtrodden kid but now he's had sex".
*** Or it was referring to the fact that his actions directly contradicted his father's orders, and he was therefore standing up to "the man" himself.
* On ''[[Married... with Children]]'', much of the humor of the Bud Bundy character centers around his pathetic and increasingly desperate attempts to have sex, and his sister Kelly repeatedly teasing him for it.
** He has an active sex life, but he lacks partners...
** He did lose it at some point though. Didn't he have sex with Al's boss(female)Gary
** Uninspiringly enough, despite being a one-handed-stud, Bud still suffers from the [[Hollywood Dateless]] trope.
* On the HBO series ''[[Rome]]'', Atia hires war-hero Titus Pullo to make her son Octavian (the future Emperor Augustus) into a man. Naturally, one of Pullo's efforts is to take young Octavian to a Roman whorehouse. (Note that he looks to be about twelve when this is going on.)
** [[Crowning Moment of Funny|''"Octavian, have you penetrated anyone yet?"'']]
** Also note that Atia at this time believes Octavian has been penetrated-by Uncle Caesar, because he can't tell her where they disappeared to one night(Caesar was actually having an epileptic seizure). But the Romans saw it as necessary for Octavian to do the penetration to become a man.
* With the exception of Harry, this occurs to the aliens on ''[[3rd Rock from the Sun]]''. Harry was implied to have had sex in an early episode and it was presented as a joke that someone that clueless actually "got some", but the other three Solomons lost their virginity with great fanfare.
* Loss of virginity is a big aim of all the main characters in ''[[The Inbetweeners]]''.
** Which leads to a hilarious reveal in the final episode with  {{spoiler|Neil}}.
* Sid of ''[[Skins]]'' is under pressure from his best friend Tony to lose his virginity, as Tony is embarassed to be friends with a virgin. JJ in the third season is also miserable about being a virgin, especially when his two best friends manage to be very sexually successful, but eventually his lesbian friend Emily sleeps with him out of pity.
* In a flashback ''[[How I Met Your Mother]]'' showed us how Barney losing his virginity to Rhonda "The Man-Maker" French turned him into the [[Casanova]] we know today.
* In [[Glee]], Finn loses his virginity to Santana, believing in this trope. but was incredibly regretful about it immediately afterwards and the following Monday denies he lost it yet.
* On ''[[Boy Meets World]]'', Cory and Shawn say that their prom night will be "the night we leave as boys and come back as men", and both try to persuade their respective girlfriends to have sex for the first time. Cory and Topanga almost go through with it, but [[Let's Wait a While|decide not to in the end]], and Shawn and Angela, well... the episode ends [[Did They or Didn't They?|without resolving that plotline]] and it's not mentioned in the subsequent episodes.


== Other ==
* The internet legend ''[[Densha Otoko]]''/''Train Man'' is the story of a virgin [[Otaku]] who falls for a woman he saved from a [[The Chikan|train groper]]. While he does throw out his Otaku-ish things once he realizes he's fallen in love with her, his real enemy isn't his desire to prove himself so much as his own self-confidence.
* In some ancient cultures, prostitutes were expected to help a young man lose his virginity, so that by the time he got married, he'd know what he was doing.
** Fun fact: these "ancient cultures" included medieval Catholic Church. Yep. The prostitutes were considered a necessary evil, allowing [[Values Dissonance|young men]] to [[Unusual Euphemism|let loose the steam]] before the marriage and thus preventing extramarital sex.
*** There was also the fear that those young men would turn to each other to...relax. Female prostitutes were better than male friends helping each other out.
** Apparently one reason the Zulus were so feared in battle was that they had entire regiments of young men who were not allowed to have wives before they killed their first enemy, no doubt exacerbated by the other groups of older soldiers who were married. So you can guess how motivated the young ones were...


== Music ==
* Mentioned in some [[Parenthetical Girls]] songs, and the focus of "Unmentionables."
* "Strawberry Wine" by Deanna Carter


== Video Games ==
* The [[Adventure Game]] series ''[[Leisure Suit Larry]]'': This is the entire plot of the original game, starting with Larry's desperate attempts to visit a prostitute before trying to find "True Love". In fact, failing to have sex before sunrise in the original game results in a [[Nonstandard Game Over]], as Larry, sworn to lose his virginity by the end of the night, commits suicide. He even gets technical about it after visiting a prostitute and deciding that prostitutes don't count.
* Rare female example in ''[[Baldur's Gate|Baldur's Gate II]]:'' if the player romances Aerie, she asks to sleep with the protagonist at the end of her romance arc to prove herself a woman rather than a girl. Accepting her offer leads to the ''bad'' ending of the romance-the good ending has the player teach Aerie the distinction between sex and love. The good ending leads to Aerie's continued romance arc in ''Throne of Bhaal'' where this trope is visited again as Aerie, very much in love, asks the protagonist to sleep with her again-not to become a woman, but because she loves the protagonist, and sleeping with her is the good path.
* Used ([[But Not Too Gay|somewhat euphemistically]]) in conjunction with the [[Coming Out Story]] for symbolic value in ''[[Blaze Union]]'' as the final arc of [[Coming of Age Story|the canon route]]. Gulcasa, grieving over Siskier's death and left stricken by being forced into [[Self-Made Orphan|symbolically committing matricide]], turns to Nessiah for comfort. His childhood friend Jenon and his remaining mentor figure Medoute sense that something is different about him, but don't understand what until Medoute witnesses a sexually charged scene between Gulcasa and Nessiah while spying on them. And then [[It Got Worse]].
* Alistair in [[Dragon Age|Dragon Age:Origins]] subverts this trope by refusing female!Gray Warden sexual advances until he falls in love with her, despite the fact that he admits sexual attraction and current virginity.
* In-universe example in [[No One Lives Forever|NOLF 2]], when the backstory of the traitor from the first game is explored. A series of audio diaries reveal that he trained rigorously to take on the role of a super-spy, but being unable to pick up women leaves him feeling inadequate. This changes when the last tape is found...
{{quote|"She wasn't good looking and she smelled like a horse, but she was woman enough for me. My last obstacle to becoming a super-spy has been conquered. As of today, I am no longer a virgin! YEEEEEEEEEEHAAAAAAAAAA!"}}
* This is the case for {{spoiler|Hanako Ikezawa}} in ''[[Katawa Shoujo]]'', another rare female example. {{spoiler|She allows Hisao to have sex with her even though [[Fan Disservice|she's obviously uncomfortable]] and ''neither'' of them is emotionally ready, because she wants him to stop seeing her as [[Don't You Dare Pity Me!|someone that]] [[I Will Protect Her|needs protecting]]. (Even more so, after their sexual act Hisao mistakenly ''thinks'' that [[Rape Tropes|he forced Hanako into sex]], and while explaining this trope Hanako has to dispell these fears too.)}}


== Webcomics ==
* Taken to the [https://web.archive.org/web/20111224204017/http://www.pvponline.com/2008/05/27/innocence-lost/ logical extreme] with Francis and Marcy of [[PvP]] when they [https://web.archive.org/web/20111223172750/http://www.pvponline.com/2008/05/28/ding/ lose their virginities to each other.]
* Subverted in the [[Ciem Webcomic Series]]. The danger level in Dirbine accelerates immediately after Candi and Denny get married. What they thought would give them added security just makes them realize how [[Incredibly Lame Pun|screwed]] they really are. And Candi's belief that she'd get to [[Take a Level In Badass]] following her marriage? Didn't really work. Denny being [[Stuffed Into the Fridge]] via [[Dropped a Bridge on Him|neck crush and house bombing]]? ''That'' finally did it.
** In the book, Candi's already not a virgin [[Rape as Backstory|due to being raped]]. However, she gets frustrated that [[Death by Sex|virtually every man that sticks himself in her ends up dying horribly]]. Getting married doesn't seem to help her either. But saving Donte's life and embracing the Ciem identity? ''That'' allows her to gain the confidence she lacked before. The men in her life want to believe they will become better somehow through sleeping with her; but it never seems to work out that way.
* [http://pbfcomics.com/?cid=PBF191-Boy_Scouts.gif This strip] of [[The Perry Bible Fellowship]].
* Christian Weston Chandler's [[Self Insert Character]] in [[Sonichu]] is just as desperate to lose his virginity as his [[Real Life]] counterpart. Hilariously (or disturbingly, or a little of both) when he does finally get laid it's by ''tricking'' a woman into having sex with him...and he ''brags'' about it.


== Western Animation ==
* One episode of ''[[American Dad]]'' parodied this plot, in full-blown [[Does This Remind You of Anything?]] style. Stan is upset because although he is a CIA agent, he has never killed a man, and [[A Real Man Is a Killer]]. So he sets out to find the right person to be his first kill.
** The episode "Failure Is Not a Factory-Installed Option" episode [[Moment Killer|has a repo-man telling Steve "Well you may have planned on becoming men through sexual conquest, but perhaps an equally valid preparation for adulthood would be a night filled with disappointment and compromise."]]
** The first several episodes of the series had subplots about Steve trying to score with girls. Luckily, [[Casanova Wannabe|this aspect]] of his character [[Characterization Marches On|was later downplayed]].
* In probably one of the [[Beavis and Butt-Head|greatest speeches]] of all time, [https://web.archive.org/web/20110908160702/http://www.trilulilu.ro/Vanecika/54ec165dccd6bf Beavis talks about he and Butthead are never going to score, and grow old without having sex.]
* An early episode of ''[[The Cleveland Show]]'' dealt with the double standard with this trope. He tries to prevent his step-daughter from having sex while trying Cleveland jr. to lose his virginity.

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