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{{trope}}
{{quote|''Have you tried... ''not'' being a mutant?''|'''Madeline Drake''' (to her son [[An Ice Person|Bobby]]), ''[[X-Men (film)|X2: X-Men United]]''}}
 
There's a certain group of people. They have a normal childhood, to an extent, but somewhere along the way, they discover they're ''different''. Not like the other children. Not like their parents. They're something unusual. Something that means they can never fit in. They hide their differences deep away from themselves, but it eats away at them.
 
Then they find others like them - also living in secret and ostracized from society. A subculture, upholding a [[The Masquerade|masquerade]] of being normal by day, but living out a secret lifestyle in seedy bars and locations. They might [[Trial Balloon Question|ask their family if they would still love them]], but chances are that if they ever tell their parents, acceptance will be hard, and they'll inevitably be asked, "'''Have you tried...''not'' being a monster?'''"
 
This story is familiar to many real-life minorities, the most well known example being gay people, so it's not that surprising that it's so often used for various fantastical creatures as well. Often as part of [[The Masquerade]], you have at least someone hiding who they are from their parents.
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See Also: [[Space Jews]], [[Fantastic Racism]], [[Ambiguously Gay]], [[Hide Your Lesbians]], [[Discount Lesbians]], [[Does This Remind You of Anything?]], [[All of the Other Reindeer]], [[Why Couldn't You Be Different?]] and [[Stages of Monster Grief]].
 
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== Anime and Manga ==
* [[Played for Laughs]] in ''[[Slayers]]'' {{spoiler|''Next''}} when heroes face the fact that a charming prankster they traveled with is milleniamillennia-old and extremely powerful [[Exclusively Evil|Mazoku]]. [[Love Freak|Amelia]], [[Lord Error-Prone|of course]], immediately and [[Genki Girl|passionately]] exhorted the character to "become a real human". Even ''[[Idiot Hero|Gourry]]'' saw just how grotesque this was.
* Done in a more sensible fashion in ''[[Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha StrikerS]]''. It's more along the lines of "Have you tried not being a group of morally-devoid combat cyborgs?" At the end of her fight with Nove, Wendi and Deed, Teana tells Nove that if she cooperates, she will be able to start over and enter rehabilitation, prompting Nove to respond that they, being combat cyborgs, are made to do battle. Teana responds that {{spoiler|Subaru}} is a case of someone who was made as a combat cyborg but nevertheless became a kind person. Teana's three opponents get the message and enter rehabilitation, with Wendi and Nove crediting Teana as the one who inspired them to change.
* This is the major conclusion of [[Subtext]] for Light in ''[[Death Note]]''. When he simultaneously dates a half dozen girls and keeps a [[Porn Stash]] for the ''sole purpose'' of hiding the fact that he's a killer with supernatural powers we have safely arrived at this trope.
** There's also an [[Inverted Trope|inversion]], where the parent is correct. Knowing that his son is under suspicion of mass murder, Light's father, Soichiro, gently explains to him that it isn't Kira who's evil, but the power he's come by. Sadly, his effort is wasted.
*** This follows Light walking out of Soichiro's family meeting (he covers it well, but he does walk out), after Soichiro calls Kira evil and declares that he'll never submit to him. In short, Light's got daddy issues.
 
== Comic Books ==
 
* ''[[X-Men]]'', to the point of extreme [[Lampshade Hanging]], where people (like [[Spider-Man]]) in some issues get gays and mutants confused. Mutants who can pass for human are sometimes referred to being "in the closet". The biggest group of people rallying against mutants are conservative Christians, who think their existence is a sin against God. There have been numerous attempts to "cure" mutants, as well as to kill them off as "abominations". Basically, after the racial civil rights of the '60s and '70s cooled down, the franchise was adapted to mirror the gay rights struggle, which it actually fits better in many respects (since mutants can be born to anyone, don't become [[Puberty Superpower|different until puberty]] and you can't necessarily tell their condition by looking at them).
== Comicbooks ==
* [[X-Men]], to the point of extreme [[Lampshade Hanging]], where people (like [[Spider-Man]]) in some issues get gays and mutants confused. Mutants who can pass for human are sometimes referred to being "in the closet". The biggest group of people rallying against mutants are conservative Christians, who think their existence is a sin against God. There have been numerous attempts to "cure" mutants, as well as to kill them off as "abominations". Basically, after the racial civil rights of the 60s and 70s cooled down, the franchise was adapted to mirror the gay rights struggle, which it actually fits better in many respects (since mutants can be born to anyone, don't become [[Puberty Superpower|different until puberty]] and you can't necessarily tell their condition by looking at them).
** Then during the '90s during the gay AIDS epidemic, mutants were given a disease called the Legacy Virus that was essentially, mutant AIDS. When asked when it would be cured, writers responded "[[Anvilicious|Not until AIDS is cured]]". Apparently, nobody at Marvel actually ''expected'' a cure for AIDS to elude humanity for over two decades, so it became a [[Plot Tumor]] of asking [[Reed Richards Is Useless|the greatest scientists in the universe who can create dimensional portals and cybernetics]] "When is that cure coming again?", every month. So the cure was eventually found.
** See the ''[[X-Men (film)|X2: X-Men United]]'' entry below.
** Parodied in ItsJustSomeRandomGuy's Youtube series ''[[I'm a Marvel And I'm a DC]]'':
{{quote|'''Superman''': But I've got friends who are mutants! Like... uh, Spider-Man?
'''Spider-Man''': Hey, I'm not a mutant! ...NotThatTheresAnythingWrongWithThat.[[Not That There's Anything Wrong with That]].}}
** This is taken to its logical extreme in ''Dark Avengers-X-Men: The Beginning'', where it's revealed that the San Francisco neighborhood known as the Castro is a mutant neighborhood instead of a gay community like in real life. Vote no on Prop X and all that. ''Goddammit, Marvel, there are actual gay people in your universe.'' This is especially baffling when you consider that M-Day and other events eliminated all possible similarities between gay people and mutants. There are, at a maximum, ''500'' mutants alive worldwide. Theirs is the last generation; no more are being born. So, among other things, the idea of mutants as an even somewhat visible minority anymore is insanely ridiculous.
*** And then changed ''again'' in [[Generation Hope]]. With Hope's return and survival? Mutants begin being born again, thus becoming a minority again.
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* When Wiccan of the ''[[Young Avengers]]'' came out to his parents, their response was to say that they always knew and welcome his boyfriend to the family. Ironically, he was trying to reveal that he and his boyfriend were superheroes.
 
== Fan FictionWorks ==
 
== Fan Fiction ==
* In ''[[Luminosity]]'', vampires do simply change upon turning in a few key ways. Most of them are hard to understand, and after a few questions from her father about stuff that's perfectly normal for a vampire, Bella thinks
{{quote|''I half expected him to ask if I'd ever tried to stop being a vampire.''}}
* In ''[[Desperately Seeking Ranma]]'', [[Sailor Moon|Usagi's]] parents ask Minako "Have you tried ''not'' being a [[Magical Girl]]?" when she, Chou and Yori first explain about the secret life of their daughter and her friends.
 
== TheaterFilm ==
 
== Films -- Live-Action ==
* The Blue Rajah (Master of Cutlery!) from ''[[Mystery Men]]'' is mortified to be caught by his mother rummaging through her cutlery drawers, and desperately tries to brazen it out by daring her to disapprove of his superhero lifestyle. She turns out to be far more supportive and loving than he expected.
* One of the jocks in ''[[Cursed (2005 film)|Cursed]]'' assumed that this was what the newly-infected werewolf was concealing. As the jock in question had been hiding his own sexual orientation, confusion ensues.
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*** The GLBT metaphor is ''very'' close to the surface in ''First Class''. Charles and Erik both have [[Pass Fail|passing privilege]], since their respective mutations don't make them look any different from non-mutants, but have still strongly affected their lives. Raven ''can'' pass for [[Does This Remind You of Anything?|'normal']] but it's exhausting and undermines her self-confidence. {{spoiler|More than anything Raven feels like a metaphor for a transgender person, especially after her conversation with Erik -- she doesn't have to perfectly "pass" as a non-mutant woman to be beautiful and have worth.}}
* This crops up in ''[[Muppets from Space]]'' when Gonzo discovers he's an alien; "But I didn't choose to be one. I mean, I've always had alien tendencies, and this just makes sense to me."
 
 
== Literature ==
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"I can't manage to look like a person....I look like a boy fairy with butterfly wings." }}
* In ''[[Hero]]'' by Perry Moore, Thom is an extreme example of this. He has healing powers, but his father, a former (non-superpowered) superhero who left in disgrace, now hates anyone with powers. Then there's the fact that Thom's also gay...
* In Bill Brittain's book, ''Wings,'' the main character grows a pair of batlike--andbatlike—and ultimately functional--[[Exactly What It Says on the Tin|wings]]. He is forced to have them [[Bittersweet Ending|surgically removed in the end]], however, at the insistence of his father.
 
 
== Live-Action TV ==
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* ''[[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]]'' pulls this a few times. First and foremost, Joyce's reaction to learning about Buffy and vampires was, literally, "Have you tried...''not'' being the Slayer?" She later describes herself as "marching in the Slayer Pride parade." To be fair, Joyce's reaction is a lot more understandable than most examples on this page, since her biggest concern is that Buffy could get seriously hurt or killed being the Slayer.
** In "Phases," Larry is suspected of being a werewolf, and Xander has a talk with him about having urges and desires he can't control...but it turns out Larry's not a werewolf, he's just gay.
*** ''[[Angel]]'' then reverses that: Cordelia misreads the signals she's been getting from the new vampire Harmony, and ends up thinking Harmony's a lesbian. She calls Willow to ask "why didn't you tell me?" and the conversation [https://web.archive.org/web/20120510072624/http://vrya.net/bdb/clip.php?clip=5488 is full of mixed signals]. Finally:
{{quote|'''Cordelia''': Harmony is a vampire? That's why she--oh, my god, I'm so embarrassed! All this time I thought she was a great big lesbo!...Oh, yeah? Really? [[Not That There's Anything Wrong with That|Well, that's great! Good for you.]]}}
* ''[[The Vampire Diaries]]'' hilariously [[Discussed Trope|discusses]] and [[Playing with a Trope|plays]] with this trope upside down and sideways. Caroline, a young vampire, is seriously discriminated and ''tortured'' by her father who is trying to cure her of her vampirism through negative reinforcement. Her mother's explanation for her father's behavior? Her parents were "raised a certain way to believe certain things" about vampires that aren't necessarily true. He even ''chooses to die'' instead of becoming a vampire because his beliefs are all he has. Irony of ironies? Her father ''is'' gay and left his wife because he could no longer live a lie. Needless to say, extremely [[Genre Savvy]] vampire Damon has to points out the incredible...quirkiness of the situation.
* The live-action series ''[[The Tick (animationtelevision)|The Tick]]'' had an episode of this trope, centered around Arthur coming out as a superhero to his mom and sister. Tick is referred to as Arthur's "Partner" and "Special friend". In one scene the mom and sister, upon first entering the restaurant Arthur and Tick frequent, notice a superhero leaving and ask, "Is this one of '''those''' kind of places?"
** Creator [[Ben Edlund]] later regretted putting this in people's minds when they made the episode about the relationship between superhero and sidekick, which he described as "very marriage-like" in the commentary.
* ''[[Deep Space Nine]]'' invokes this trope when Odo tries his hardest to convince a found [[Super Soldier|Jem'Hadar]] to pursue interests other than killing or fighting.
** ''Deep Space Nine'' also invoked it with respect to Dr. Bashir's genetic enhancement. Bashir was outed as having a trait that is not only considered revolting and wrong by the general public but is also illegal and can lose his military job and even his citizenship, even though Bashir wasn't the one who chose the trait in the first place. That episode read as if it were a metaphor for forced outing of gays. To make matters worse, it creates an [[Unfortunate ImplicationImplications]] with respect to [[Psycho Lesbian|future references to other genetically enhanced characters]].
* ''[[Dinosaurs]]'' has an episode where Robby suspects that he mights be (GASP) an herbivore! Herbivores are treated the same way in dinosaurs society as gays are, complete with "herbivore bars" and being called "Vego" as a slur.
** [[Fridge Logic]] makes this ''weird'' once you realize that several of the dinosaurs characters are based on (B.P. Richfield's Triceratops comes to mind, although he did try to eat Robby once) ''are'' herbivores.
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** Not to mention that he's played by openly gay [[Neil Patrick Harris]].
* "[[Heroes]]" originally had this as a major plot point. Claire's friend Zach was going to embrace his homosexuality, mirroring Claire's embrace of her new powers. Although Executive Meddling nixed the gay reveal, which is perhaps why Claire ends up wangst ridden for the rest of the series.
 
 
== New Media ==
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** [http://www.afterelton.com/blog/dennis/two-gay-guys-video-blog-wrap-102-vampires Here]
** [http://www.afterelton.com/TV/2008/9/alanball_trueblood?page=0,2 And here]
 
 
== Tabletop Games ==
* Much of ''[[The World of Darkness]]''.
** Especially the Changelings of ''[[Changeling: The Dreaming]]'', since the other supernatural creatures are born or turned from sires or parents, but Changelings may be born to any family, love theater, sex, and the arts,<ref>PS: the Nockers say "fuck that."</ref>, and have a miserable time fitting in with "banal" normal society. Changelings also either come into their fae identities in early childhood (realizing they're "different" from the other neighborhood kids) or during puberty (dealing with this new rush of sensations and body issues).
** Another really good one for it is ''[[Werewolf: The Apocalypse]]'' (''[[Old World of Darkness]]'') or ''[[Werewolf: The Forsaken]]'' (''[[New World of Darkness]]''). Although they're technically born as a werewolf (or other Changing Breed/Fera), they don't awaken to their true nature until a dramatic, life-changing event that usually happens no earlier than puberty.
*** Although in that case, lycanthropy seems to be more related to [[Puberty Superpower|puberty itself]], especially considering the whole monthly-cycle connection (for further exploration of this theme, see ''[[Ginger Snaps]]'').
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*** And it being entirely possible to be a secret member of the anti-mutant league while being a secret mutant...
 
== Theatre ==
 
== Theater ==
* There's a comedic short play called ''Jimmy the Antichrist'' about a boy coming out to his parents as, well, the Antichrist (though he's not as evil as that title would suggest). It's all very [[Does This Remind You of Anything?]], complete with the parents saying "Have you tried ''not'' being the Antichrist?" This is lampshaded several times by Jimmy's sister, who keeps asking him whether he's sure he didn't mean to say he was gay.
** This was performed excellently at NFL (National Forensic League, not National Football League) Nationals in 2006: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=[[R Fcpsfbu 7 Qw]]
 
== Video Games ==
 
== Videogames ==
* In ''[[Blaze Union]]'', Baretreenu was so adamant that her young son Gulcasa never realize that he was a demon that she placed a powerful, permanently damaging seal on his powers and concealed his true identity even from himself. Over a decade later, when he realizes he has demon blood anyway, a very big deal is made out of his choosing to live as the person he was born as. Gulcasa points out that demon blood in and of itself isn't a bad thing, and what's important is whether he personally makes good or bad choices with his life; his mentor Medoute retorts that his demonhood is absolutely an inherently evil thing, and that she can't forgive his decision to be true to himself. This, among [[Blaze Union/Analysis|other things]], makes the scenario read very much like a [[Coming Out Story]].
* In the [[Dragon Age]] series mages are basically magical mutants born to elves and humans with a stronger connection to the [[Spirit World|Fade]] than others. Untrained mages are vulnerable to [[Demonic Possession]] and are taken to [[Wizarding School|Circles]] to be trained and watched by [[Knight Templar|Templars]] who also double as [[Mage Killer|Mage Killers]]s if they do become possessed or "apostates" that try to run away from the their Circles. Besides the legitimate danger of having a magic-user around to unsettle parents there is also the undercurrent of "magic equals sin" courtesy of the creation of the [[The Horde|Darkspawn]] and other magical transgressions of [[The Magocracy]] that once ruled Thedas; many parents are happy to be rid of their "tainted" children despite the fact that magic ability is universally acknowledged as hereditary and not due to the mage's actions. Of course, there are also examples of parents and families that subvert this: {{spoiler|Isolde}} in ''Origins'' makes some really bad choices to keep her mage son from being taken away, Finn in the ''Witch Hunt'' expansion pack is loved by his parents enough for them to give him an [[Overly Long Name]] and a crappy yet lovingly made hat (that actually has good stats) while the Hawke family in [[Dragon Age II]] chose to stick together and risk persecution by the Templars despite having at least two apostate mages among them.
** Surprisingly, homosexuality itself isn't that big a deal in the setting (or at least not enough for the authorities to bother making laws against it), so the traditional homosexual comparison isn't valid. There is a way to not be a mage through being magically cut off from the Fade by being made "Tranquil" and losing all magical talent ''and'' [[Creepy Monotone|emotion]]; this is considered either a merciful fate opposed to execution or [[A Fate Worse Than Death]].
* In [[Fate/stay night]], Kirei DID try. It just didn't work out for him.
 
== Web Comics ==
 
== Webcomics ==
* [http://www.irregularwebcomic.net/2347.html Played with] in [[Irregular Webcomic]].
** And [[The Rant]] has a link back here.
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* Parodied in [http://www.amazingsuperpowers.com/2008/01/pill-confession/ this strip] of ''[[Amazing Super Powers]]''.
 
== Web Original ==
* Inverted in [https://tonights-episode.tumblr.com/post/177603186976 tonight’s episode: HAVE YOU TRIED NOT DOING CRIME?] since crime is a choice (although sometimes other options are limited by poverty or oppression, and there are environmental factors).
 
== Real Life ==
* Often happens to people with mental, development or social disorders when they are trying to come out. This can in extreme cases result in severe harm and trauma, if the 'not being X' part is forced upon them.
* The famous [[wikipedia:Kara Neumann case|Kara Neumann case]] is another [[Real Life]] example, where young Kara Neumann came down with type-one diabetes, which is completely fatal unless treated. Her parents were convicted of reckless homicide for [[The Fundamentalist|praying over her instead of]] [[Abusive Parents|taking her to a doctor, because they thought she was "posessedpossessed by demons."]] In this case, they killed her because they ''made'' her try to be normal, [[Sarcasm Mode|with ''very'' obviously good results.]]
 
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