Thread:Forum:Wiki Talk/How do we avoid "Dare You Enter my Magical Realm" syndrome when discussing porn?

This thought was prompted by a post on the "FuckNoTVTropes Tumblr that said, to paraphrase, that the fact that our Breast Expansion page is one of the most popular ones, we had learned nothing about what screwed up TVTropes in the first place.

I mean, not banning discussion of certain works was one of the whole reasons this site existed, but we still should find a way via site design and general curation of site "culture" to keep the discussions from turning skeevy and creepy like it did in the case of TVTropes. Of course, the fact that I wanted to make a thread about generally artistically fascinating/sociologically interesting/completely fucking insane things in pornstuffs was a factor in starting this discussion, BUT THAT IS NEITHER HERE NOR THERE FOR NOW!

The title of this thread is in reference to [a Gunshow strip] that's become general slang on 4chan's /tg/ board for when a DM turns a tabletop RPG campaign into a playing ground for his/her own perversities to the annoyance of the players, so let's start with that topic: How can we prevent pages on pornstuffs or porny/potentially porny topics from becoming that sort of skeevy fetish den that creeps out the non-pervtacular users?