Get a Hold of Yourself, Man!/Sandbox



""My God! PULL! YOURSELF! TOGETHER!""

- Edna Mode (whacking Elastigirl with a rolled-up newspaper), The Incredibles

Like Percussive Maintenance, but for people.

The Hero has just gone off the deep end under stress. Proving himself to be Not So Above It All, he grows increasingly hysterical, Jerkass, unresponsive or (w)angsty, at a time when his team needs his unaffected leadership the most. How do you fix the hero?

With the human-centered Percussive Maintenance, of course!

His Sidekick, Distaff Counterpart, right-hand man or woman, love interest (specially the ladies of the Tsundere or Broken Bird kind) or commander jolts him back to his senses with a sharp slap with either the front or the back of his hand, or just a straight-up punch to the face, and occasionally a retort for him to get his head out of his ass already (see entry title for the archetypal one). In anime, the phrase "Shikkari shiro!" is often heard. The shame-faced hero says something along the lines of "Thanks. I needed that." Alternately, "Not even my dad hits me!", but they still calm down.

Alternatively in a program wanting to limit the potential for imitation violence, a glass of cold water may be used to bring the subject back to their senses.

Might overlap with the Dope Slap. May also be used on a Hysterical Woman. Similar in spirit, but not so much in execution, to Don't Make Me Take My Belt Off. Compare with Quit Your Whining, in which it is verbal, but this trope can be used to "spicen" it up. If you need to lay a full-on beating to snap someone out of it, see Beat the Curse Out of Him.

The Myth Busters tested a myth based on this trope and found that - at least when dealing with someone who's merely tired and frazzled rather than suffering from a more serious condition - a slap to the face does help the slapped person to focus on the task at hand and perform better. Nevertheless, it should be applied with extreme caution, as smacking someone who's already suffering can easily do more harm than good.

For reassembling after destruction, see Pulling Themselves Together. Also not to be confused with A Date with Rosie Palms.


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Fan Fiction
""There is no blood on your hands!" (and he was speaking literally)"
 * Gohan actually had to punch Goku in the cheek in an attempt to get Goku to snap out of being frozen in terror after in Goku's Wish: The Return of Broly. Subverted in that it doesn't quite work.
 * In Dragon Age: The Crown of Thorns, the Wise Prince protagonist applies a very strong backhand to Faren, the dwarven commoner, in order to snap him out of a serious case of shut-down brain that the latter ended up in after being shoved into his worst nightmare by the Sloth Demon. He follows it with a Cooldown Hug of epic proportions. Big Brother Mentor indeed.

Pro Wrestling

 * Japanese wrestling legend (and new WWE Hall Of Fame inductee) Antonio Inoki is/was known for this... among other types of hitting.
 * When Maria kept worrying over her tag team match with John Cena, he kissed her to shut her up.

Puppet Shows
"Miller: She is Piggy, Miller's Daughter. And I am her father, Miller, Piggy's Father, your Majesty. No, wait I am not the majesty, You're the majesty, and this is my daughter, Piggy, and this is--
 * In the Direct to Video Muppet Classic Theater, during the Rumpelstiltskin rendition, Piggy's father gets a little overboard trying to introduce himself and his daughter to the king.

(Loyal Royal Advisor backhands him)

Miller: Thanks, I needed that."

"Gonzo: Intermission!? Wait a minute!! Why wasn't I told about this?! This is an outrage!! OOF!! Thanks, I needed that.
 * And it's done again at the end of the Intermission.

Rizzo: Don't mention it."

Tabletop Games
"A smack across the face brings your ally back to his or her senses."
 * Fairly common among the Imperial Guard of Warhammer 40000. When they're not being executed for cowardice, that is.
 * The Player's Handbook 3 for Dungeons and Dragons 4th Edition includes Skill Powers, such as "Snap Out of it", which is pretty much this trope.

Real Life
"Grampa: You can push them out of a plane, you can march them off a cliff, you can send them off to die on some God-forsaken rock, but for some reason you can't slap them."
 * General George S. Patton once famously slapped a young soldier who seemed to be suffering from shell shock (it turned out later he had malaria). It almost ended his career, proving that this isn't a good idea to try for real.
 * As a side note, the soldier Patton slapped later said, "He was probably pretty well worn out himself." Combat can do strange things to people. Patton's popularity saved him.
 * It doesn't work if it is "shell shock" (PTSD) either. Anyone who's been in the Armed Forces can tell you that, combat experience or not. A person that far gone has usually spent themselves keeping a hold for as long as they have.
 * This was parodied during the extensive Patton movie pastiche in The Simpsons episode "Bart the General". Bart does it, but Grampa scolds him:


 * Myth Busters tested this trope on their December 22nd 2010 episode. Their result? Confirmed. While not up to control, all three testers did better in practical tests when frazzled and then slapped than when unslapped.
 * At least when the subject isn't suffering from PTSD, as above.
 * This is because being slapped activates the flight- or fight-response. PTSD is this response having caused too much stress leading to a mental breakdown, so activating it could actually make it worse.