Bury Me Not on the Lone Prairie

""Lay my soul, lay my pride, where my people fought and died. Bury me 'neath the killing fields.""

- Roma Di Luna, Bury Me 'Neath the Killing Fields

Alice dies, having expressed some sort of wish about the disposal of her body to Bob. For reasons that Alice usually wouldn't have been able to foresee, Bob finds these wishes difficult to carry out. Often, this requires Alice's body taken to a specific location for burial.

This is frequently used as a way to justify giving Bob an Idiot Ball: Due to the Dead demands Honor Before Reason.

Compare The Fun in Funeral. Can sometimes overlap with On One Condition.

Anime

 * The Kurosagi Corpse Delivery Service manga is about a group who do just this. Doesn't matter if you're dead either -- you can still speak to their resident itako. In one chapter, they take a body all the way to Iraq.
 * Martian Successor Nadesico has fun with this trope in an early episode. Employees of Nergal who die on the job are entitled to whatever peculiar funeral they want. When a company space station explodes a few episodes in, the only official nearby to perform all the funerals is the captain of the titular ship. After the mass funerals for Catholic, Hindu, Buddhist, and shooting-star-teddy-bear religion employees, there are still hundreds of unique funerals to perform.

Comic Books

 * After the X-Men adversary Destiny died, she left her leman Mystique detailed instructions on where and when she wanted her ashes scattered into the sea. Precognition + Sense of Humor = Win. "I'll make you laugh if it's the last thing I do" indeed...
 * Specifically, Destiny had worked out.
 * In Wonder Woman, when Diana's one time publicist Minda Mayner's video will is played, she includes a large sum of money for Diana as an incentive to have her cremation ashes spread around the Amazons' Paradise Island so she can be a part of that place. Diana's only complaint is that she was upset that Minda felt she was so shallow that she needed to be paid to do something she would have immediately done for nothing.

Film

 * In the movie Last Orders, Jack wishes to have his ashes scattered off Margate Pier.
 * This is the entire plot of the The Three Burials Of Melquiades Estrada, in which the protagonist steals his friend's corpse and sneaks into Mexico to bury him in his hometown.
 * In the movie S.O.B., the central characters decide their friend deserves better than a Hollywood funeral full of phonies, so they steal his body from the funeral home and give him a Viking burial (put on a burning boat and sent out to sea).
 * This is also the plot of the German movie Die Oma Ist Tot. Grandma wants to be buried next to her husband in Poland, but dies on a family visit in Germany. As the transport costs are too high, the family tries to smuggle her across the border... in a surfboard box.
 * This is a MacGuffin in the movie Stealing Home. Mrs. Robinson figure Katie (played by Jodie Foster) commits suicide and leaves her ashes to Billy, played by Mark Harmon. Her vague instructions that "he will know what to do" with her remains set a Vision Quest in motion, as Billy reminisces about their relationship, his youth, and his lost potential as a ballplayer and a human being. He finally scatters her ashes off the diving horse pier in Atlantic City, where Katie had often fantasized about flying to a faraway land.

Literature

 * The entire plot of As I Lay Dying by William Faulkner is driven by Anse Bundren's attempt to return his wife's body to her family graveyard, through a rainstorm.
 * Before the beginning of Redemption Ark by Alastair Reynolds, Antoinette Bax's father had said he wanted to have his ashes scattered in the atmosphere of a gas giant. At the time that he dies, all the gas giants in the system where she lives are in the middle of a war zone. This doesn't stop her from personally dropping his body off in the atmosphere of a gas giant while it's still in the contested volume.
 * In The Bible, Joseph makes the Israelites swear that they would take his body with them when they left Egypt. He was eventually reburied in Israel, meaning that they must have carried his coffin through the desert for forty years. This causes complications along the way, because the people carrying his coffin are therefore ritually impure and can't offer the Passover sacrifice. A "make-up" date for the sacrifice one month later is instituted due to this, which means that complications as a result of a will are Older Than Feudalism.
 * The Mary Gloster by Rudyard Kipling is a poem entirely consisting of the narrator's instructions to his son as to how he is to be buried (at sea, and it's going to be a BIG chore).
 * Another poetic example: The Cremation of Sam McGee. Except he sort of gets better.
 * In Robert A. Heinlein's Time Enough for Love, Lazarus Long tries to give Libby the cremation he requested, by letting him burn up de-orbiting into Earth. Problem is, he dies on the other side of the galaxy, but thankfully corpses keep well in space. Long sets up the body in an orbit around the planet where Libby died, knowing he can always come back later when it's possible to get to Earth and retrieve the body. Oddly enough someone steals it before he can come back, and even odder it turns out to be Lazarus himself. (Time Travel is fun like that). However, in Number of the Beast we discover that he steals Libby's corpse a second time so they can recapture his DNA and memories and clone him, this time as a woman.
 * In Lonesome Dove Woodrow Call brings Gus MacCrae's body across the country so he can be buried in his favourite orchard.
 * In Polidori's The Vampyre, Lord Ruthven invokes this trope to ensure his corpse will be exposed to moonlight, which he knows will revive him in undeath.
 * Early on in The Warrior's Apprentice, Sergeant Bothari tells Miles that if he dies he doesn't want to be buried in space, but to be returned to Barrayar, where he has been promised a place in the Vorkosigan family cemetery, at the feet of the place reserved for Miles' mother. Needless to say, this.
 * Played with in Amy Tan's Saving Fish from Drowning. Narrator Bibi Chen laments that her joke about wanting to be buried in a particular antique Chinese coffin (she was an art dealer) was taken seriously by her friends. She goes on to say that her actual wish was to be cremated, her ashes put into several valuable containers, and each container given to a different friend, the idea being that the friends would take her ashes somewhere interesting and scatter them, then keep the boxes as a memento.
 * In Cold Sassy Tree, Rucker Blakeslee leaves behind specific instructions regarding the disposal of his remains: he wants to be buried immediately, in a plain pine box lined in burlap, without a church service or any clergymen present, though he asks that his grandson recite some Scripture. Then, a bit later, he wants a party "like them Irishmen have." Since the book takes place in Georgia (the US state) in 1906, these directions are extremely contrary to the norm, and cause a lot of heartache for his family. They do it anyway.
 * Kaspar and company use this as their cover story in Exile's Return by Raymond E. Feist. They are trying to bring a magical set of armour back home for the wizards to study. To avoid attracting the attention of thieves, they put it in a coffin and claim that the coffin contains the body of their deceased leader, which they are bringing home for burial.

Live Action TV

 * In Slings and Arrows, Oliver wants his skull to be removed and used in all future productions of Hamlet. Nobody wants anything to do with it except Geoffrey, who has to carry Oliver's head around in a cooler until he can find a sufficiently disreputable taxidermist.
 * Frequently used on Six Feet Under.
 * Season 4 starts with Nate fooling his dead wife's parents so that he can steal her body and bury it in nature, as per her wishes.
 * Or the gay set-designer who wanted to turn the funeral parlour into the set of his dead lover's favorite opera, therefore paying three times the usual fare. Ah, the crazy shit people do out of love.
 * The Firefly episode "The Message" looks as though it's going to be of this form, until the corpse in question wakes up... And in the end, they double-subvert it after shooting him a few times because he spends most of his time holding Kaylee hostage and shooting a gun at people and generally not listening. He does get his body taken home to his family like he wanted, though.
 * An episode of Northern Exposure revolves around Maurice and Holling trying to do this for a deceased hunting buddy of theirs.
 * On The George Lopez Show, there was an episode where his mother-in-law, Emelina, dies. Emelina is buried in a burial plot next to where Angie and George had bought theirs. Unfortunately, George only bought one extra plot, so Angie would have no place to go.
 * Averted on Dr. Quinn Medicine Woman. Miss Olive's will specifically states that her body actually be buried on the lone prairie rather than carted hither and yon.
 * In the QI episode "Gothic", certain Ghanaian funeral customs involving customized coffins are discussed in these terms.
 * In the Only Fools and Horses episode "Ashes to Ashes", Del Boy and Rodney spend the entire episode trying to find an appropriate way to dispose of the ashes of Trigger's grandfather (so they can flog off the urn he is in). After all of their attempts are thwarted, the ashes are accidentally sucked up by a road sweeper. They decide this is appropriate as Trigger's grandfather had been a street sweeper.
 * In Supernatural, when Dean returns from the dead in Lazarus Rising, he expresses surprise at being buried instead of cremated (as that is the norm for hunters). Turns out Sam refused to burn his corpse because he'd need a body when Sam got him back somehow.
 * One episode of The Drew Carey Show centres around Drew's great uncle Alfred dying and his last wish to be buried in Drew's backyard.

Music
""Oh, bury me not", and his voice failed there
 * The Trope Namer is a famous cowboy folk song, with a dying cowboy making this plea. But...

But we took no heed to his dying prayer

In a shallow grave, just six by three

We buried him there, on the lone prairie"

"Oh, Honey when I die
 * The Eraserheads, with their song Poorman's Grave

Dress me up in a coat and tie

Give my feet a pair of shoes that I haven't worn for a long time

Put me in a golden box

Not a cross on a pile of rocks

Bury me where the grass is green

And the gates are shining"

"Next time out to sea
 * Flogging Molly came up with a way around this in "Cruel Mistress":

Bring enough soil to bury me

For I don't want my final jig

In the belly of a squid"

"Do not surround me with wreaths of flowers
 * The Fugs, with Bury Me in an Apple Orchard

Or place upon my body the signs of a fetish

Or crescent, cross, phallus or sun

But bury me in an apple orchard

That I may touch your lips again."

"If I die in a combat zone
 * "Where The Rose Is Sown" by Big Country.

Box me up and ship me home.

If I die and still come home

Lay me where the rose is sown"

"If I die young, bury me in satin
 * The plot of the video to "Kingdom of Rust" by Doves is a man driving to Blackpool to scatter his father's ashes on the beach.
 * Averted, played straight and just generally messed with in Violent Femmes' "I Hear The Rain".
 * "If I Die Young," by The Band Perry:

Lay me down on a bed of roses

Sink me in the river at dawn

Send me away with the words of a love song"

"Tan me hide when I'm dead, Fred; tan me hide when I'm dead...
 * Todd in the Shadows had a lot of fun trying to figure out the logistics of this funeral arrangement.
 * The entirety of the Rolf Harris song "Tie me kangaroo down, sport" is the stockman's dying wishes, and concludes with the immortal lines:

So we tanned his hide when he died, Clyde, and that's it hanging on the shed."

"Tan me hide when it comes, boys; tan me hide when it comes...
 * In The Beatles BBC sessions, they end it:

So we tanned his hide when he died, boys, and now Ringo's got it on his drums!"

Western Animation

 * In one episode of The Simpsons, Homer's mother dies, and she wants her ashes to be thrown at a specific place at a specific time. It turned out it was all to disrupt one of Mr. Burns' anti-environmental plans.
 * On King of the Hill, Cotton's will demands that his ashes be flushed down a specific toilet on a specific diner (despite that an earlier episode implied that Cotton was going to be traditionally buried when he died [he and Peggy were fighting to save Cotton's burial spot at the Veteran's Graveyard), apparently because General Patton used it once. Hank has to get around the diner owner, who's fed up with soldiers having the same request.
 * One of Cotton's dying requests was actually for Hank to cut off his corpse's head and mail it the Emperor of Japan. When Cotton finally passes, Hank is distraught at the prospect but hesitant to deny his father's final wishes. Fortunately, Peggy lies and convinces him that Cotton took back the thing about his head right before the end when she was alone with him.

Real Life

 * Singer Gram Parsons requested he be cremated at the Joshua Tree National Monument. His manager stole his corpse from the morgue to do so.
 * And then there's James Doohan, Scotty from Star Trek the Original Series, who requested his ashes be sent into space. It took them 2 years to take his remains up even on a temporary trip. On the rocket that was going to bring his ashes (with several others) into space, the launch was halted at T-0.5 seconds because the rockets were malfunctioning. It launched properly a few days later.
 * Somehow, a malfunctioning spacecraft seems more appropriate for the man behind Scotty than one where everything goes smoothly.
 * Other people's ashes have been taken into space as well, most notably Trek creator Gene Roddenberry and astronaut Gordon Cooper.
 * A bit of the ashes of Clyde Tombaugh, discoverer of Pluto, are on the New Horizons spacecraft, currently on its way to Pluto. Hence the joke that Pluto was downgraded from a planet status in order to make Tombaugh turn in his grave and thus power the New Horizons probe...
 * Gene Shoemaker wins this trope. His ashes were buried on the Moon.
 * Sometime in the mid-'90s, Ann Landers got a letter from a person whose deceased relative had requested a Viking funeral (i.e., set adrift in a wooden boat which is then set ablaze) and was having trouble finding a jurisdiction where it would be legal to do so. The verdict? It's not technically legal to do so anywhere in the United States, unfortunately.
 * Robert the Bruce, King of Scotland from 1306 to 1329, asked for his heart to be buried in the Holy Land. It was put in a lead coffer and taken on crusade. When his knights got into a tussle with some Moors in Spain, one of them threw the king's heart behind Moorish lines, forcing the others to hack through the Moors to get it back. Then they played their bagpipes over the fallen enemy. The heart was taken back to Scotland and buried in Melrose Abbey, where it was unearthed during construction work in 1996.
 * Hunter S. Thompson, whose life contains about every trope in existence, had the best funeral in history. His ashes were shot out of a cannon shaped like a giant sword, the hilt of which was shaped like the Gonzo logo. The man in charge of getting all of this (and the frankly amazing party) together? Johnny. Depp.
 * The best part? His ashes were mixed into fireworks. Yeah.
 * Christopher Titus' dad. His last wishes included being buried in a cardboard box, charging for attendance to his funeral (except for the ladies), allow everyone who he ever pissed off in his life to step up and piss on his body (to the tune of "Blue Eyes Crying in the Rain" by Willie Nelson), and after cremation wished to have his ashes put into a douche bottle (hot water bottle) find a hooker and "run me through one last time." In the end, he is put in a rental coffin with a cardboard box lining, made about $2,200 at the door, Titus is the only one to claim to have peed on him and while they found a hooker, they couldn't quite go through with the last act so they spread his ashes around a casino floor at Lake Tahoe and various Victoria Secret's dressing rooms.
 * There is a widespread story that the paleontologist Edward Drinker Cope wished to have himself designated the type specimen of Homo sapiens. Sadly, it isn't true. Cope did donate his remains to science, though.
 * Del Close, the great improv comedy actor/teacher, wanted his skull to go to the Goodman Theatre in Chicago so that he could play Yorick (or any spooky-scene-setting Cow Tools) into eternity. On his deathbed he made a friend promise to make it happen, but he didn't put anything in writing, and in the end she had to substitute one she'd bought from an anatomical supply company. His real skull was cremated along with the rest of him.
 * Pianist Andre Tchaikowski donated his body to medical research, and asked that his skull be used in the Royal Shakespeare Company's production of Hamlet. In 2008, he played Yorick opposite David Tennant.
 * Frederick the Great of Prussia stipulated that he be buried in a simple grave at Sanssouci palace, next to his dogs. His successor decided that his was not on and had him buried in the vault of the Garnisonkirche in Potsdam. At the end of World War 2, the coffin was taken to Hohenzollern castle in Baden-Württemberg. He was finally buried where he wanted after the reunification of Germany.
 * An unusual but fitting tribute: before he died, Marvel Comics writer Mark Gruenwald made arrangements to have his ashes mixed with the printing ink for the initial run of a trade paperback collection of his groundbreaking mini-series Squadron Supreme.